Updated: Mar 13, 2020
I’ve learned to either accept people as they are or to just leave. Altering them, bartering, or asking them to pick and choose between something means you’re forcing something that’s not meant to be. See them as they are with flaw and all, not the potential they could become because you would be changing them for your own selfish needs instead of them desiring to on their own. This saves us from the empty promises and disappointments. We can’t expect anything, but instead just appreciate everything.